by Staff Sgt. Erica Picariello
30th Space Wing Public Affairs
5/8/2014 - VANDENBERG AIR FORCE BASE, Calif. -- In
his first "Roll Call" dated September 2013, Chief Master Sergeant of
the Air Force James A. Cody implored Airmen, "Now more than ever we need
to communicate...face-to-face. Communication is and always will be the
key to remain connected as Airmen and an Air Force. Our Air Force has
long valued each and every Airman, yet over time we've gravitated to
communication methods that easily fall short of the personal connection
we need to solidify the value we place in each other."
Some Team V members took the Chief's sentiments to a whole new level -
instead of just getting out and talking to Airmen, they backed away from
technology as a primary means of communication.
"Everyone is on a cell phone and it's a barrier," said Master Sgt.
Christopher Gremling, 532nd Training Squadron first sergeant.
This first sergeant had a personal cell phone, but gave it up more than
five years ago in hopes to encourage himself to spend more time talking
to his Airmen, and family, face-to-face.
"I typically get about an hour and a half or two hours with my family on
a work day," Gremling said. "Not having a cell phone is an added
incentive to spend time interacting with my kids and wife. You aren't
tethered to something that has the propensity to distract you...
face-to-face communication is the first and best form of wireless
communication. If it's after work or at home and an emergency happens, I
do have a government issued phone that my squadron knows to call."
He also added that not using the phone or texting as a primary source of communication has made him a better first sergeant.
"Talking to an Airman makes most situations better," said Gremling. "You
can get to the heart of the issue quicker with face-to-face
communication then with the vague text. You can also see other signs you
can't get through text... you're concerned about a member who has a
problem but it's hard to gauge how they feel if you don't know their
normal behavior. Face-to-face contact is important because over half of
communication is non-verbal; you're not going to get that through social
media or text."
Where some saw the cell phone as a tether they needed to cut, others
chose never to get involved with the mobile communication movement in
the first place.
Katie Thompson, a 43 year-old mother of three teenage girls and the
Vandenberg Catholic Parish coordinator, has never owned a cell phone in
her life and feels that not having a cell phone has made her a better
parent and friend.
"I'm present in a conversation," Thompson said. "I'll be talking to my
daughters and I'll ask them a question...sometimes they reply with,
'huh?' and I know it's because they didn't hear me because they were
texting or doing something on their cell phones. If we go back 20 or 30
years we never would have done that -- it's accepted as the norm now to
be distracted. It's like people are frantic that they're going to miss
something."
Being cell phone free has also bettered her spiritual and mental resiliency.
"I like my time," said Thompson. "I have a special needs daughter, so
when I get out of the house, I want my time to be my time. When you have
a cell phone people expect you to be at your beck and call. Not having a
cell phone allows me to have the time to re-charge and take a break
from things. I think cell phones are very valuable and see them as a
tool -- but for other's it's a lifeline. It's scary to me that a piece
of technology could have that much control over someone's life."
Thompson isn't opposed to the idea of cell phones, but she feels society
has relied on electronic forms of communication too heavily and some
interpersonal communication skills are being lost.
"I think young people today don't know how to read when someone is upset
through body language," Thompson said. "Listening to tone of
voice...you don't get that through text. Then the reassurance that the
tone can bring is lost on a text."
From Vandenberg Airmen and civilians to the CMSAF, stepping away from a
cell phone and talking to people face-to-face is viewed as an essential
component of the future of the Air Force.
"You must know your Airmen beyond their capabilities in the work
centers," wrote Cody for the September 2013 Roll Call. "You must respect
all Airmen and understand and appreciate what they bring to our team.
If you know what is important to them, you will show them you care and
ultimately be a better leader. We must and will take the time necessary
to appreciate and care for each other. Our Air Force is facing many
challenges that will likely continue for some time. We must remain
connected as Airmen, and communicate effectively so we can capitalize on
the opportunities to Shape the Future."
Friday, May 09, 2014
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